2. I am mighty proud of how I drove myself to my radiotherapy sessions. Most days, my husband drove me, but in the last weeks of my radiotherapy, when he was inundated with work and meetings, I drove myself to the hospital. It did feel weird, waiting there on my own for my session, surrounded by patients and their carer. I was the only one without a companion. But it also felt liberating. Having cancer, you basically have to depend on a lot of people -- doctors, nurses, therapists, family. Cancer treatment becomes this big blanket that cloaks all else. Those 90 minutes of driving time gave back a sense of self, that, I am still me somehow. How I could still be independent, and braver.
3. I went back to work six weeks after my surgery and worked 50% of my normal hours. So when I was having radiotherapy,I worked in the morning, and drove myself in the afternoon to the hospital. Four months after my surgery, I was back fulltime at work. Looking back, I wondered if I should have taken it slow. But I also knew this. Work was the one thing that made my post-operative routine feel normal. Even though I was still suffering from brain fog and fatigue due to the post-surgery treatments, knowing that I had to do tasks everyday, with deadlines looming allowed me to not be overwhelmed with morbid thoughts about cancer. I just had to focus and do what was needed to be done. Work was the perfect distraction.